Author: TimMaynard

Leadership 25

The challenge in the prayer of 2 Chronicles 7:14 ends with a challenge for change. We can pray all we want but if the end result does not produce the necessary change that God requires then we are just reciting “vain repetition.”

When was the last time you prayed with an expectancy that God would produce a change; making you a better husband or wife, a wiser parent or more obedient child (yes students, I am addressing you too!), a better leader or supervisor of people? When did you pray, “Speak Lord, for your servant hears?”

We pray wanting God to hear our prayer, but not just to nod in assent to what we are saying. We pray asking God to do something that we are asking, to give something that we need, to provide something that we lack.

In short, when we pray fervently, seriously, we pray with an expectation that SOMETHING WILL BE DONE. But do we pray with the same understanding that God expects change from us?

We are to make choices. “If My people….will turn from their evil ways.” (HCSB). This is about choosing the direction and trajectory of your life and hoping that it is in accordance with God’s plan, will and purpose for our lives. Jack Hayford once told a gathered group of pastors that change is choice and choosing to do what WE want or what GOD wants.

Sometimes choosing means saying YES to something good by saying NO to something bad. We must “choose against ourselves.” Our flesh wants to sleep in. God calls us to meet early with Him. Our flesh wants to eat the wrong stuff. Our diet says, “eat healthy.” We will watch this summer as the world’s top athletes meet in Rio for the Olympics. Their skill, their physique all tell us that morning after morning, day after day, meal after meal, they have said NO to the wrong things and that they rise early to gain a prize that is, at best, temporary.

To “turn from our wicked ways” produces a result that is eternal. When God sees genuine change in the hearts of His people He pours out the blessings we most need: being heard from heaven… having our sins forgiven… healing for ourselves and our land.

To continue in the wrong direction brings disaster. At some point, the road that you may think is the right one will lead to death. It comes to a tragic end.

Something like that is happening in our land. People have chosen “against God” and “for themselves” for far too long. The road will end soon.

When it does, will you be on the right one?


FOR MEDITATION: If My people who are called by My name will humble themselves and pray and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven, will forgive their sins and heal their land.     2 Chronicles 7:14

FOR REFLECTION: Are you on the road going in the direction that God sees as best? What must you do to turn back to the right road?

Leadership 24

This week we have been reviewing the prayer of Solomon in 2 Chronicles 7, at the dedication of the magnificent temple he had led the people of Israel to rebuild. This happened at a time of great prosperity, unparalleled unity and unprecedented outpouring of God’s blessings on His chosen people.

We realize that it was not Solomon who brought this period about. He was riding on the shoulders of the Shepherd-King of Israel, his father, David. And it was because of God’s promises to David that the people of Israel were blessed and that this event could come to pass.

Solomon, tragically, was a leader who began well but who did not finish well. He started with an attitude of humility, a reverence for the one true and living God but finished a broken, doubting and sad individual and poor leader for the kingdom. This is a story far too common in the biographies of leaders both of our national life and of other areas of influence.

He started as a man who humbly sought God’s will… and God’s face. He did so with an undivided heart. He asked God for wisdom and God gave him not only wisdom but so abundantly that he became the wisest king the Israelites had ever known. But yet he ended foolishly. And it was for one reason and only one.

He stopped seeking God’s face.

Solomon was a knowledgeable, educated man. He turned the best of his thoughts, the fruit of his education to learning about the God he served. He sought God’s face, we can imagine, in prayer and meditation. He read his father’s writings and sang the songs David wrote.

But somewhere along the way his own reflection in the mirror became more attractive to him than God’s face. He began to seek after the pleasures of his flesh and the worldly offerings of his kingdom. He started to believe his own press clippings and lived an isolated, insulated life in the palace.

And he stopped seeking God’s face.

This is where the wheels fall off the wagon for many of us. Something becomes more attractive, more alluring, more captivating to us than knowing the Lord. And as we seek those things we forsake the One who can truly satisfy us.

We have stopped seeking the face of God when we begin seeking satisfaction through ways that are in conflict with God’s standards and God’s character. We have stopped seeking the face of God when we are more concerned in our prayer life with getting something from God than from simply being satisfied WITH God.

God called His people back to Himself by saying, “If My people who are called by My name will humble themselves and pray and SEEK MY FACE and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from Heaven….”

Today, are you seeking the FACE of God or His hand? Do you really want to know God or are you looking for a divine handout? The people most satisfied with God are those who seek His face, His favor, His presence… above any other.

What do you seek?


FOR MEMORIZATION: If you forsake the Lord, He will forsake you.      2 Chronicles 15:2b

FOR REFLECTION: My granddaughter McCail is just over a week old as of this writing. Last week I held her for a few moments when she was awake and as she stretched and I looked into her eyes for one of the first of what I hope are a million times, she reached up her hand and touched my face. Translated: She touched my face. It was new to her. She touched it once, and then again. She sought my face. I would have given her anything in that moment had she asked me. It is that seeking that pleases the Father. Touch His face. Seek Him. And you will find what you need.

Leadership 23

When asked what is the most indispensable characteristic of a leader that people want to follow, humility will inevitably rise to the top of the list. The most loved iconic leaders in American politics and in business were known for a humility of personality and character that made them winsome, approachable, and pleasant to be around.

Some of the greatest leaders of our nation were humble presidents who were not afraid to admit they did not have the answers and who would move quickly to prayer. I think what attracts God’s attention most to a person, a church or a nation is the willingness of people to be humble.

When God calls His people, those “called by My Name,” to prayer He adds a prescriptive phrase first: “If My people……humble themselves and pray…” If we are truly His people, called by His Name, it is not hard for us to express that relationship with the humble response of prayer.

In yesterday’s blog I made the assertion that prayer does not show doubt as some have claimed but it does show DEPENDENCE. We pray because we are dependent upon God to shine His Face toward us; to send His Spirit upon us; to give us heavenly wisdom to guide our lives and our nation toward safe harbor.

But we will not humble ourselves. Our spirit of independence makes us self-reliant, even if we have to destroy our lives and our others to prove that we are “Master of our own fate and Captain of our own souls.” (From Invictis)

The Bible says, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” “Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God and He will life you up.” There is something consistent about this characteristic of leadership that transcends even time and cultural expressions. Moses was “the most humble man who ever lived” says the Bible’s testimony. Jesus refused to wear any title gladly but “servant.” A wise leader and an obedient follower of Christ was always self-select humility.

A leader is, above all else, humble. And it is the prayer that is offered in a spirit of humility that God will be pleased to hear.


FOR MEDITATION:   Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord and he shall lift you up.   James 4:10

FOR REFLECTION: Can you ruthlessly abandon self-reliance in your life? Is there a spirit of independence that characterizes you that pushes you further from God?

LEADERSHIP 22: A Prayer for Our Nation

Leaders pray.  That is part and parcel of our calling.  Whether you pray for those you supervise at work, or the children who play at your feet at home, or the young people you mentor in soccer….you pray.  That is who we are.  That is part of our calling.
And as leaders in our nation, we should pray.  We should pray “for kings and all those in authority” Paul tells us (1 Timothy 2:1-2) but we are to be the ones on the front end of the plow, cutting through the hardened soil of our land that is baked by sin and we do that in prayer.
God calls us to pray.  “If My people, called by My Name….” is a call to a very specific group of named people.  It is not a call for all people to pray.  God does not expect all people to pray.  I had a conversation this morning about a young man in my extended family group who posted on Facebook, ” Prayer is doubt. If you really trusted God’s plan, you would not have to pray about it.”  But my young friend has totally missed the mark with that comment.  And by his belief system, he betrays that he is not among those who are specifically “called by My Name.”
But those who are so called have a responsibility to pray, not to express our doubt that the gracious hand of God will prevail, but our confidence that it will prevail.  We pray to express our dependence on the Lord.  We pray to express our assurance that God’s will is going to be done, but that we want to be a part of seeing that come to pass.
And so we pray for America.  We pray for the city in which God has sovereignly chosen to place us.  Every person one earth is where they are…born where they are….raised where they are because God has put them there.  You are here because God put you here….where ever “here” is for you!  But we are to pray for the peace of the city in which God has chosen to place us.  That word from prophet Jeremiah was spoken to the people of Judah who were captives in Babylon…a wicked, godless culture that mocked the God they claimed to serve.
As we pray for the peace of the city, God’s peace that comes to His people, called by His Name, will flow out to the people around them.  Others will be blessed because God is abundant in pouring out His blessings.  And God is severe when disciplining and calling His people back to Himself.
The prayer of Solomon which we apply today to ourselves is a conditional prayer.  It begins with an “IF.”  There is no promise…no guarantee…if the conditions set forth by God are not me.  Sometimes it is our reluctance in meeting those conditions that close God’s hand against us.
Today God wants to bless.  God wants to overwhelm us.  God wants to give….
…..IF.

FOR MEMORIZATION:  “If My people who are called by My Name will humble themselves and pray, and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, THEN will I hear from Heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.”  (2 Chronicles 7:14)

FOR REFLECTION:  In your own life, have you met the conditions God has set forth to bless you and the family, the city, and the nations around you?

Leadership 21: A Call to Prayer for America

Lord, you have been our stronghold and refuge for generations of our lives.  You have been faithful to Your promises, Your covenant, Your Word.  You have graciously named us “Your people.”  You have made us a “peculiar people….a people You have treasured.
But Lord, we have sinned.  Your Word tells us that “sin is a reproach to any people, but righteousness exalts a nation.”  We have sinned….nationally, corporately, and personally.We live, as Americans, in the midst of a sinful people who value material things over love for You; who treat holy things with disgust and who cherish unholy things that offend You.

We have called pornography art, and elevated it to a protected status in our nation.

We kill our children Who are yet to be born, and call it “freedom of choice.”

We tolerate sexual behaviors that we should shun, and laugh at those who call it wrong.

We have sinned.  We have marginalized the poor, the widow, and the orphan…the refugee and the stranger…the very people You trusted us to protect.

Lord, have mercy on us.  We deserve nothing but your judgment.  We can plead for nothing but your mercy.  And yet we continue in corruption through our courts, our Supreme Court, our national leadership and are complicit in their behavior.We cannot separate ourselves from the worst among us and claim to be without sin.

WE HAVE SINNED.  Lord, have mercy on us.

As we celebrate today around our meals and our outings, we thank You for freedom purchased, provided, and sustained at great cost.  We are grateful for patriots lives given for and in defense of our freedom.  And yet we remember that You love more than just America.  You love the nations….those who dwell in the uttermost parts of the earth and in utter, spiritual darkness.  And too often, we forget that we are to live to see them come to Light and Life in Jesus.  Lord, have mercy.
We move this month into a season of elections and significant decision-making as a people, and yet few will seek Your face regarding this decision. Please help us, as we vote this year, to remember that “our citizenship is in Heaven.”  WE are first Your Ambassadors for Christ, and then citizens of this land of America.  Give us grace not to make the wrong decision with the freedom You have provided.
The righteousness You seek in America, the way we will truly see America great again, is as we humble ourselves and pray, and seek Your face, and turn from our wicked ways.  We want to see our nation thrive, that the light and hope of the Gospel of Jesus may go forth from us again…and that we as the people of God may assume our assigned role as the conscience of our nation.
May freedom ever be ours, as we know that freedom may come only from Your hand and only as we first submit ourselves to You.  Then our freedom is an eternal gift, and not an earthly one.
Thank You, gracious Father, for the blessings of this land….the prosperity we have known….the privileges we enjoy.  And may we ever be a great nation because our God ALONE is great. And may You, our Father, bless America once again.
In the name of Jesus we pray.

Amen

Leadership 20

The final essential item in a leader’s backpack ties together the things we have covered in this week’s blog.  The leader must have a clear objective.  This objective is fleshed out by a plan to accomplish the objective.  An objective is different, I believe, from an agenda.  Some leaders exercise authority or use their position to accomplish an agenda.  An agenda, as I am using it here, is not to be confused with an itemized order of business for a meeting.  An agenda is a personally and sometimes personality-driven goal that will serve the leader’s need for power, for control, for revenge, for selfish ends.  When agenda is used in this context, it is seldom used with a positive tone.  An agenda can be devastating in the hands of an out-of-control leader, who is not under the leadership of the Holy Spirit.

But an objective has a more selfless, magnanimous outcome.  Nehemiah had an objective.  He saw a need; the people of his beloved homeland living without security, without comfort, and without protection against the enemies and natural forces around them.  His objective was driven by compassion for the languishing Jews who had returned already to Jerusalem under a governor named Zerubbabel.

It was Nehemiah’s objective to meet a need.  Not to gain notoriety for himself.  Not to become influential as a figure of history or a contemporary leader.  Nehemiah’s objective was to rebuild a wall to complete a promise God had made to His people many years before.  But his heart was pure; there was no personal agenda driving this project.  In fact, it would bring Nehemiah nothing but heartbreak, disappointment, and sleepless nights to offer his shoulder to this task.  He would lead, but he would lead in the attitude of a servant who would not seek his own advantage in this situation.  In fact, several times in the Book of Nehemiah, he journaled how he would not take food, wine, or any payment for the job he was doing.  He was empty of any personal agenda in this work.

As he laid his case before King Artaxerxes, it was with a pure heart.  I believe the king saw that transparency in his cupbearer.  It is essential, but difficult to live life without an agenda.  It is tremendously difficult to lead people without one, and it takes constant self-scrutiny to lead from a posture of humility and servanthood, with a desire only to see God glorified and not yourself.  Yet the finest leaders we have known in business, politics, or the church arenas are people who can embrace an objective but reject an agenda.

And serve the Lord before they themselves.


FOR MEMORIZATION:  And I said to the king, “If it pleases the king, and if your servant has found favor in your sight, that you send me to Judah, to the city of my fathers’ graves, that I may rebuild it.” (Nehemiah 2:5)

FOR REFLECTION: A Prayer for today:   “Lord, help me to be a servant in my leadership and not a person with an agenda to serve myself.  And make it clear to those I lead in my office, classroom, squadron, or workplace that my heart is transparent before You as I lead them.  Use me to rebuild, to clarify, to show compassion, and to wash the feet of those in need, and lead from that posture of humility and not self-aggrandizement.  As Jesus led, so may I lead.  Amen.”

Leadership 19

LEADERSHIP 19

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But that was only step one on this significant journey.  Nehemiah…and every effective, godly leader….must remember to bring a compass.  The leader is continually checking the trajectory of his or her life in relation to “true north.”  For the leader, the most important reference point is their moral compass; their  “true north.”
A lot of really good leaders get lost on this journey.  They forgot to pack their compass, or they fail to consult it.  They lose their way on the journey and compromise themselves morally or fail to course correct when it becomes obvious they are off track.  The leader needs to know where the ultimate destination is going to be, and continually watch the needle of their moral compass to keep them on track and in focus as they travel.
The “perks” of leadership can sometimes be the thing that most pulls leaders off the path to their destination.  Distractions of wealth, worldliness, or the allure of the flesh can blind a leader to the reason they ever began this journey.  I have personally known a number of gifted, enabled, privileged leaders who gave it all away for a wrong choice morally.  Their life, their family and many times even their follows are lost to a momentary decision made when the leader has lost their compass.
In the midst of the allure of the capital city of Susa, one of the most idolatrous and self-indulgent cultures of that day, Nehemiah kept his moral bearings.  He continued seeking the Lord in the midst of the distractions of wealth, luxury, and the influence of foreign gods.  He continued seeking the God of Israel as his “true north.”  It was God’s direction he continued to follow.  It was God’s voice that he listened for in the midst of the multiple noises of the world around him.
And it is that compass that we must be sure is in our backpack as a leader.

FOR MEMORIZATION:  “Then the king asked me, `What is it that you want?’  So I prayed to the God of heaven.”  (Nehemiah 2:4)
FOR REFLECTION:  Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding (wisdom).  In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight.”  If you have lost your moral bearings, the clearest path to finding your compass again is that verse.  If we want to walk on straight paths….morally and ethically correct ones…this needs to be your “true north.”
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Leadership 18 – Special Edition

It happened just like I was told it would.  They warned me….well-meaning veterans of this world I stepped into today….but I really didn’t believe all the hype.  I mean, come on.  How could this event change my life the way they said it would…changing everything around me?  I am, after all, a rational, professional, fairly educated human being.  I just won’t get swept away the way that many predicted I would…..at least not to the extent I had been told it would.

I pondered this as I sat with other expectant family members in the Family Retreat at Baptist South on Sunday and Monday.  Waiting.  Eating junk food.  Playing card games and watching endless re-runs of game shows.  Jumping every time the door to the Labor and Delivery floor came open.  Reaching for another of those devilish Hot Tamale candies I am now addicted to.  (Thank you Ashley!!)

Frankly, I knew it would be moving.  But life-changing?  For me?  Wasn’t sure how that really could happen.  And then, at the end of over 24 hours of labor and waiting, my son Dave sent us a snapshot from his phone inside the room.  The baby was here!  Three days after her due date, she almost stuck the landing.  And she was born on my Dads birthday!

After our first excited rounds of texts and phone calls were made, and great-grandparents and aunts and uncles were notified of their new “promotion,” something incredible happened.  My son walked into the waiting room and for the very first time I saw it.  He was a father.  It showed on his face, weary after a sleepless night and standing alongside his wife.  I was filled with a pride for him at that moment that was beyond description.  He was now different.  I could see it.  We embraced for a moment and he disappeared behind the double doors with two weary and anxious grandmothers and a newly minted aunt.

The other grandfather and I sat in the room waiting for our invitation to go back and meet our new granddaughter.  We were both aware that grandpa’s take a back seat in moments like this, and we were ok with that.  Paul and I chatted as we waited thumbing mindlessly through an AARP magazine.  I looked for another Hot Tamale.  Sadly, there were none.

Then it was our turn to enter.  I walked into a room to the sound of the baby crying as Dave changed her diaper.  Knowing it would be the first of many thousands, I knew he would become adept at this skill.

I surveyed the emotion-packed room as a spirit that I can only describe as God-sent joy was pervasive. I saw it in the new mother’s face.  Logan is a beautiful woman, but as she lay in the bed disheveled by the hours of labor she had undergone, I saw a radiance and beauty in her that was remarkable.  She was a mother.  She was now different.  I could see it.  I could feel it around her.

Then I had the privilege of watching as my son carefully handed his now-swaddled, contented, perfectly-formed, lovely, dark-haired daughter to my wife.  And as I watched, Pam changed as she carefully and adoringly held her newly born granddaughter in her arms.  A joy and beauty emanated from her that made me love her in a way that I had not experienced before.  She literally radiated with joy. She was a grandmother!  She was now different.  I could see it in her eyes, her face.  I could sense it in her spirit.

By now my eyes were so tear-filled that the room was blurred.  I had to step aside to clear them.  Because then they said, “Poppy, it’s your turn to hold her.”  And when they handed her to me, I changed.  I could feel it from the depths of my being….a love and joy flowing out that only a caring Creator-God and a beautiful newborn baby could bring. As I looked into the beauty of McCail Violet’s face, I was now different.

I am a grandfather.  And I am certain my life will never be quite the same!

Poppy

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McCail Violet Maynard
Born 1:13 PM on June 27, 2016
7 pounds, 13 ounces

19 3/4 inches long

Leadership 17

Nehemiah saw the wall before anyone else. Not the old walls. Everyone who had returned saw the devastation and rubble the Babylonians left behind. Nehemiah saw the walls rebuilt before anyone else. Not on an architect’s drawing board. Not in an artist’s depiction. But in dreams and visions that now preoccupied his daily thoughts. Images that obscured his ability to move on with anything else. Nehemiah had a vision. He saw the walls completed. God had birthed this vision…drawn it in the deep places of his spirit. It bordered on an obsession that made it worth risking everything…his job, position, reputation, his money…even if necessary his life.

Leaders see things first. Every building project that becomes reality has already been clearly projected on the screen of the leader’s mind. It’s not in question to the leader. Every business start-up, military campaign, staff restructure, or idea is seen, felt, or tasted by the leader first. Ray Kroc tasted the first McDonald hamburger. Howard Schultz refined Pike Place coffee and passed the expertise on to the first Starbucks barista. Leaders see things first. They lead from a vision toward that vision. They help others see what they see.

The second essential item in the leader’s backpack is a vision that they have lived in, walked through, or tasted first.

Even in decision-making, vision drives the process. I have counseled numerous young pastors in processing a vital question: “How do you know when God is in a move, a change, or a different path?” The answer is this: When God is in something He will always give you dreams and visions about it. If He hasn’t, the decision is not from Him.

Has God placed a dream or vision in your heart? If so you can follow it with confidence and know that He will grant you success.
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FOR MEMORIZATION: “Where there is no revelation the people cast off restraint.” (Proverbs 29:18)
FOR REFLECTION: How do you distinguish between a compelling direction from God and your own thoughts? Have you laid your ambitions and plans before the Lord in prayer before moving forward?
 

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